It is a common misconception that beautiful girls are a scarce commodity. Quite the opposite, in fact.
At almost every intersection you’re bound to see women who some men would consider absolutely stunning. Beautiful girls are everywhere if you just take the time to look and observe them.
But what happens once you’ve set your sights on one? What’s the best way to start a conversation with a hot girl?
Every man has memories of that one girl who knocked him off his feet, but few men actually summon up the courage to approach and interact with a stunning woman when the opportunity presents itself.
Luckily, as you’ll soon find out, really attractive women think and behave just like everyone else. In fact, being gorgeous means they actually intimidate men more often than not, which is precisely why you should approach them with clear eyes and a full heart and not be afraid of failure.
Simply having the confidence to walk up and say “Hi” will separate you from most of the men out there who are too wrapped up in their own insecurities to risk being rejected by a hot girl. That alone will intrigue her.
Here are some tips to keep in mind before striking up a conversation with the hot girl of your dreams:
1. Concentrate less on what you’re saying and more on how you’re saying it.
Words are just words. Most pick-up lines sound pretty cheesy by themselves, but when said with purpose and confidence they can create an “in” that eventually leads to a phone number and a date. Focus on portraying a relaxed but playful vibe that shows her you’re fun to hang around.
That being said, make sure you don’t hide your true intentions. Play it too coy and she’ll start to see you as a platonic friend instead of a love interest. And we all know what that means….FRIEND ZONE!
Let her know you find her attractive with a sincere compliment and take it from there. And just for the record, saying “Damn girl! You HOT!” as you stare up and down her body is NOT the line you want to go with.
2. Don’t interview her.
Getting to know a girl you’ve only just started talking to is one thing. Grilling her is quite another.
Instead of bombarding her with boring questions, don’t be afraid to make the occasional intelligent assumption. If you notice she’s wearing running shoes, why not ask her if she’s into jogging and where her favorite place to run is?
Remember not to be too pushy. Check out Lawrence Lanoff’s Language of Lust program if you want more specifics on the words and phrases you should use when interacting with an attractive woman. Really good stuff in there.
3. Base your conversation on the things happening around you.
People like to be engaged in the present. If you notice something interesting in your vicinity, be it a person or an event, make sure to have a quip or two up your sleeve. Traditional pick-up lines can sometimes seem canned, but if you react to something that’s already happening, your interaction will free itself from the script and come alive right then and there.
4. Be decisive.
Whether it means taking the lead in the conversation or knowing when to end it, it’s you who should be calling the shots. This isn’t meant to puff up your alpha male status as much as merely underline the fact you have other things going on besides her.
It might seem like a cheap tactic, but think about it: would you really be that interested in dating someone who is fawning over you from the first minute you’ve met?
Also, never end a successful interaction without getting her contact details. This could be her phone number, email, Facebook account, or something else.
The whole point is to be able to reach her without having to bump into her on the street again. If she’s already taken or not interested, she’ll let you know. No biggie, so don’t fret it.
End the conversation when it’s going really well rather than waiting until the conversation grows stale and boring. You’ll create the most attraction by ending every interaction with her on a high note. Once you have her number and you’ve gone your separate ways, amp up the attraction by using text messages. Text That Girl has some great ones that work really well!
If you’ve internalized this advice, then you’re ready to go out and talk to every beautiful girl that crosses your path. Being a little nervous is ok, but don’t let that keep you from approaching and talking to her.
There is no right or wrong way to do this and no single best way to start a conversation with a hot girl. Talk to her with the same confidence you would when talking to anyone else. At the end of the day, it’s just two ordinary people locking eyes with each other, hoping magic ensues.